The Character of Loyalty
By Dr. Richard J. Krejcir
Loyalty is
remaining committed to those whom God has brought into our lives and
has called us to serve, even in times of difficulty. It is developing
allegiance and respect in one another, and not seeking to manipulate
the other person. Being loyal exhibits our commitment to Christ by
our commitment--with discernment--to people and righteous causes at
all times (Proverbs 17:17; Ecclesiastes 8:2-4; John 15:13; Romans
13:1-5; Titus 3:1).
Disloyalty,
Betrayal, Distrusting, and Unfaithful,
are the opposites. It is allowing our corrupt nature to characterize
our desires, so we manipulate others rather than build them up. It is
to disregard God's Lordship and authority as well as His love for
others. This mindset will quickly turn into contempt, and will cause
us to disrespect and undermine our leaders as well as one another,
and lead us to impertinence and blasphemy towards God.
Loyalty is like faith;
it means assurance of another. In ancient times, the two words had
the same meaning, and referred to one's loyalty to a person, or
trustworthiness to a promise they had made. The person receiving the
promise was acting on faith and trusting in that person, and that is
what loyalty is mainly about. But, loyalty has another facet to it.
It is also a call that we involve other characters into, such as,
forgiveness, mercy, and respect. We are to realize this with people,
even when it is underserved and unearned. It is also the knowledge
that people with whom we place our loyalty will disappoint us.
However, we cannot base our character and self image in their
reaction, only in who Christ is. Our outlook on life and reaction to
people needs to be rooted in God, not on how those people respond to
us. We are not responsible for how people treat us; we are only
responsible for treating them with utmost character, as a reflection
of Christ. Hence, the word Christian is being "Christ
like," not "self like."
We are never to forget
what Christ did for us. So, our treatment of a person needs to be
rooted in Christ, not in what they can do for us, or how they respond
to us. Yes, we need to be discerning, and not be overly taken
advantage of. But, real friendship is not based on who can do what,
but in mutual love and respect that is freely given and freely
received. God will bring people into our lives, and we cannot--due to
logistics and time--be good friends with everyone. But, we can treat
every one with whom we come in contact, with good character-- and
that means with loyalty, too. We need to realize that in order to
keep relationships functional, we have to be dedicated, trustworthy,
dependable, and committed. That means we do not gossip, we do not put
down, we do not undermine, we do not play games; rather we model
Christ and what He did for us! When we stick with our friends, we
keep our friends. Long term relationships tend to be rare, but they
are vital. Do not let then be rare in your life!
We
are to realize that God works through people, including our church
and national leaders (Proverbs 21:1; Romans 13). God uses others to
carry His plan to us and those around us. Therefore, loyalty is also
a demonstration of our obedience to our country, civil leaders,
church, teachers, authority figures, and family (unless they give a
command that goes against God's Word). It is something we demonstrate
both in public and in private. Loyalty is a character that puts a
portion of love into action for those others in your life. It may be
the one key aspect, seen in you by others, that will point them to
God's love!
Is
the Character of Loyalty working in you?
Here is how you can
find out. Take a careful look at this character and fruit of Loyalty
from God's most precious Word, by examining the passages below. Now
ask yourself:
- How do I exhibit Loyalty in my daily life?
- What can I do to develop a better willingness to be Loyal and maintain a commitment to people?
- What blocks Loyalty from working and being exhibited in me?
- How can I make
Loyalty function better, stronger, and faster, even in times of
uncertainly and stress?
· Here are positive
examples from Scripture (2 Samuel 3:6-21; Esther 8:1-2; John 11:16;
20:8; Hebrews 11:24-26)
· Here are negative
examples from Scripture (1 Samuel 15:11; 1 Kings 18:18-19; John 6:66;
2 Peter 2:10;15)