Pastoral Prayer

I am only aware of one recorded failure in the leadership of Joshua. This is found in Joshua 9. This is the record of the Gibeonite deception. Joshua failed to inquire of the Lord and had to live and lead with the consequences of that failure.

Joshua 9:14-15 So the men took some of their provisions, but did not ask counsel from the LORD.  And Joshua made peace with them and made a covenant with them, to let them live, and the leaders of the congregation swore to them.

Leadership in the church is difficult at best. To endeavor to lead God’s people without engaging in constant and fervent prayer always leads to disaster. Notice the consequences of Joshua’s failure to pray. His failure resulted in the Gibeonites living among the Israelites in spite of the fact that the LORD had commanded that they be annihilated. The presence of the Gibeonites served as a constant reminder of the consequences of leadership that fails to seek the mind of the LORD. It is impossible to do God’s work effectively apart from his constant guidance enabling grace. It is both crucial and available to those who seek it.

Matthew 7:7-8 "Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.

The power required for effective leadership and evangelism is found not in some program, not in some scripted or canned formulaic mantra, but in open-faced dependence on the LORD expressed in humble petition offered at the Throne of Grace.

Hebrews 4:14 - 16 since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses . . . Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need. 

The decline of the church and the absence of true conversions is a direct result of the failure on the part of leaders and their people to ‘inquire of the LORD’ for the grace needed in this life transforming work.

For Every Child A Father

Writing about Mother's Day is a joy. But writing about Father's Day is sadder and more difficult. Today more than half of U.S. children spend at least a part of their childhoods living apart from their fathers. How do we do justice to Father's Day in an increasingly fatherless society? 

I had a good father, and even though he was gone a lot because of pastoral duties, I knew he loved me. He also set firm boundaries and taught me to love and respect my mother. He was a leader and a role model. I believed he could do anything he set his mind to. 

I've been married for 46 years. My eight children are all grown. I know I was not always a good father, even though I wanted to be one. But with 42 grandchildren, as well as the many other children I meet every day, I welcome the chance to make up for lost time!

The Fifth Commandment in the Bible tells us to honor both father and mother, and that when people heed this rule, things will turn out well. But how can a father expect to be honored – that is, to be loved and respected – if he does not live a life worthy of these things? 

If a man is lazy, dishonest, impure or indecisive, we can expect no better in his children. On the other hand, a father who loves and respects his wife – and who leads his family with decision and dedication – is the greatest gift a child can have. A child's emotional stability depends on his or her father's example. Because the first five years of a child's life are the most formative, this example should be present from early on. 

From earliest times, men have been expected to lead their families, and we men should be proud of bearing this responsibility. Today, however, too many men do not lead, and often they are not even there at all. 

We men need to be fathers, not only to our own children, but to all the children whose lives we touch. Even men without children of their own can embody the best attributes of fatherhood. In this sense, fatherhood is a duty that is entrusted to every male, and true men will be like fathers to all children. Over the years I have known many coaches and teachers in high schools and elementary schools who were the only father figures many of their students knew. 

In a time when true fathers are so hard to find, we would do well to heed the Cuban writer José Martí, who said that "the greatest aim of our education should be to make true fathers out of the boys, and true mothers out of the girls. Everything else is secondary." 

There is deep wisdom is these words. Boys hunger for masculine role models, and suffer when they do not find them. Conversely, those who do find true fathers can one day become good fathers and leaders themselves, and leave behind a legacy that will change still more lives. 

Daring and fearless, these men will enter into the battles of life as good soldiers, ready for challenges and combat. And like soldiers anywhere, they will remain alert and ready for duty 24 hours a day. They will not be afraid to lead, or to learn from their mistakes. In this way they will make a difference for their own children and for the world around them. 

Men, let's encourage one another to become true fathers again. In an age when fear dominates every relationship, we need real fathers more than ever – men who are beacons of light, and who provide companionship, love and hope in a world filled with loneliness, pain and despair. 

Do you have such a father? If you do, you are truly fortunate. Take a moment on this Father's Day to be grateful for him and to thank him.